Title: “I Have a Dark Side I Must Understand”
Series: SELF-DISCOVERY IN GENESIS
Introduction:
We learn in the Bible, that
spiritually speaking, we have two natures in one body. The nature that we go on
feeding will grow, while the nature that we go on starving will diminish. We
each find ourselves in a spiritual struggle, even after we’ve come into a
relationship with the Lord. In fact, we could say that each and every one of us
has a dark side. And even as we find ourselves trying to please God, thoughts,
emotions, and actions sometimes come to the surface that we know are not in keeping
with our faith.
Today, I hope to come to an
understanding of how we got to this point, and what can be done to overcome the
dark side of our lives. There are three basic phases that humankind has gone
through since the creation, and by examining these we will learn how to better
deal w/the struggle that is so much a part of our everyday lives.
1. SERENITY
To live a life of serenity
means that you live in peace, calm, undisturbed and unchallenged by conflict. This
was the life that God created for us in the beginning. A life that knew nothing
of the spiritual struggle.
Now the LORD God had planted a garden in the
east, in Eden; and there he put the man he had formed. And the LORD God made all kinds of trees grow out
of the ground–trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food. In the
middle of the garden were the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of
good and evil. – Genesis
2:8-9 (NIV)
The LORD God took the man and put him in the
Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. And the LORD God commanded the man, “You
are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from
the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will
surely die.” – Genesis
2:15-17 (NIV)
God caused an unlimited variety
of trees to spring up in the garden. The “tree of life” gave life –
even eternal life – when eaten (3:22). The “tree of the knowledge of good
and evil” was placed in the garden to give man the opportunity to exercise
his freedom of choice.
Every tree was appealing, but
only one was prohibited. This tree gave man the occasion to express his
obedience and love for God. There was nothing inherently evil about the fruit
of the tree. On the contrary, the eating of this tree gave its partakers a
knowledge which God Himself possessed.
God gave Adam and Eve a life
of serenity, but He also granted them a very special freedom: He gave them the
freedom to choose. They were not created as robots; they were created in the
image of God and with the freewill to make their own decisions. They were
created to have fellowship with God, but the exchange of love always requires
the freedom of the recipient to respond to or reject that love. To institute
freewill, to give humankind an opportunity to respond to or reject His
fellowship, God warned, “If you eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and
evil, you will die.”
Unfortunately, this life of
serenity soon ended as we shall see. But the good news is that this age will
return for those of us who come to Christ for salvation. Paradise is on the
horizon for those who have teamed up with Jesus.
“To him who overcomes, I
will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of
God.” – Revelation 2:7b (NIV)
In at least some fashion,
heaven will be a return to the Garden of Eden. So we see mankind was made for
serenity, but regrettably Adam and Eve moved into our second phase:
2. SEPARATION
Now the
serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made. He said to the woman,
“Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?” The woman said to the serpent,
“We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, but God did say,
‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and
you must not touch it, or you will die.'” “You will not surely
die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when
you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good
and evil.” When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good
for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she
took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband, who was with her, and
he ate it. Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized
they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for
themselves. Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God as he was walking in the garden
in the cool of the day, and they hid from the LORD
God among the trees of the garden. But the LORD God called to the man, “Where are you?”
He answered, “I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I
was naked; so I hid.” And he said, “Who told you that you were
naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?”
The man said, “The woman you put here with me–she gave me some
fruit from the tree, and I ate it.” Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this you have
done?” The woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.”
So the LORD God said to the
serpent, “Because you have done this, “Cursed
are you above all the livestock and all the wild
animals! You will crawl on your belly and you will eat dust all the days of your life. And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will
strike his heel.” To
the woman he said, “I will greatly increase
your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give
birth to children. Your desire will be for your
husband, and he will rule over you.” To Adam he said, “Because you listened to your wife and
ate from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat of it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your
life. It will produce
thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the
plants of the field. By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food until
you return to the ground, since from it you were
taken; for dust you are and
to dust you will return.” Adam named his wife Eve, because she would become the mother of
all the living. The LORD God
made garments of skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them. And the LORD God said, “The man has now
become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach
out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live
forever.” So the LORD
God banished him from the Garden of Eden to work the ground from which he had
been taken. After he drove the man out, he placed on the east side of the
Garden of Eden cherubim and a flaming sword flashing back and forth to guard
the way to the tree of life. – Genesis 3:1-24 (NIV)
Satan, in the form of a
serpent, tempted Eve in much the same way he tempts us today. Eve was tempted
by her desire for the fruit, it appealed to her senses, and it also promised
her something beyond her present experience – the wisdom of God. In effect, the
temptation was to substitute what God had freely given, fellowship, love,
serenity, in exchange for a life of self-reliance.
The temptations that come to
us are the same – no matter what form they take, they are always designed to
take us away from fellowship with God and to become men/women/children who are
dependent only on ourselves. In short, it is a reversal of God’s plan – rather
than man being made in the image of God – we choose to make God in our own
image. And rather than accept the great generosity of God our Creator and
rejoicing in the fellowship He grants us, we find ourselves, like little
children, reaching out our hands for more. Adam and Eve gave into the
temptation and serenity ceased. They chose to walk away from God, and God
honored their choice. And we, as their spiritual ancestors, all have made that
same choice when we have chosen to sin against God.
For all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God. – Romans
3:23 (NIV)
To help us better understand
our separation from God it will be helpful for us to grasp five areas of
alienation that resulted from Adam’s sin.
1) Psychological
Separation: Man from Himself
Before sin, there was no
shame, no guilt, no self-consciousness. But now the man and woman are ashamed. Human
shame is a feeling of distress at our deficiencies, deformities, or absurdities
– real or imagined – and especially at the uncovering of these things. It is
also a feeling of distress at the uncovering of things once held private. Our
text suggests the joining together of these sources of distress with a few
words of great sorrow and mystery: after they had sinned, Adam and Eve
“realized they were naked.” For the first time in their lives they
couldn’t stand scrutiny. It wasn’t merely that they flinched when their
partner’s gaze dipped southward; it was also that they had trouble looking into
each other’s eyes.
2) Spiritual Separation:
Man from God
Before sin, man was
comfortable being with God. There was no running from Him, no hiding, no desire
to be away from His presence. But once they sinned, the comfort level was gone,
and they foolishly thought that they could hide from the presence of the
Creator of the Universe. The spiritual separation that we feel today began with
Adam and Eve.
3) Sociological
Separation: Man from Man
When God challenged Adam, he
took it like a man – He blamed his wife! For the first time they found themselves
at odds with each other. Marital strife, abuse, divorce, lawsuits, gossip and
war were all introduced by the virus of sin.
4) Environmental
Separation: Man from Nature
The world was thrown off
kilter because of sin. This was the beginning of weeds, erosion, floods,
droughts, tornadoes, earthquakes, and viruses which began to make life
miserable. (Romans 8:19-22) informs us that the creation itself waits in eager
expectation for a return to Eden and serenity.
5) Physical Separation:
Man’s Spirit from His Body
From this point on Adam and
Eve began the process of physical death. They were banished from the garden and
their bodies began to age. What was once united, body and spirit, is now
separated. The spirit lives eternally, but the body’s days are numbered. So
here we have two phases of mankind’s existence – Serenity and Separation. You and
I and all who follow Adam exist in the third phase.
3. STRUGGLE
Ever since the Fall of man we
have been involved in a spiritual struggle. Even those of us who have turned
our lives over to Christ find ourselves in turmoil.
We know that the law is
spiritual; but I am unspiritual, sold as a slave to sin. I do not
understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.
And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.
As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.
I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I
have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For what I
do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do–this I keep
on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do
it, but it is sin living in me that does it. So I find
this law at work: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me.
For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law
at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and
making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. What a
wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be
to God–through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave
to God’s law, but in the sinful nature a slave to the law of sin. – Romans 7:14-25 (NIV)
If we are to overcome, we
must understand the basic truth of our depravity. We need to understand that we
all have a dark side. Evolution says that man is getting better – that if the
right environment is provided man will choose the good. But the Bible teaches
us that we have a bent toward evil. Laws, discipline, and punishment are
necessary to curb our sinful nature. And most importantly we must recognize
this sinful nature within ourselves. Here are four truths about our sinful
nature.
1) I have inherited a
sinful nature that, if unrestrained, is capable of dreadful evil. I think we’ve established this.
2) I need Jesus Christ to transform
my sinful nature.
Therefore, if anyone is in
Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! – 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)
Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its
passions and desires. – Galatians 5:24 (NIV)
The good news is that with Christ
on my side, and with my willingness to rely on Him instead of on my own
goodness, I can overcome. It is simply a matter of letting go and letting God.
3) As a Christian, I rely
on the Holy Spirit to empower me against the daily struggle with my sinful
nature.
You…are controlled not by
the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. – Romans 8:9a (NIV)
God knows that we can’t do it
on our own. He’s not sending us out like lambs to the slaughter. He is
empowering us to prevail over the forces of evil by relying on the Holy Spirit who
indwells us.
4) I look forward to Heaven
when the struggle will be over and the Victory won!
However, as it is written:
“No eye has seen, no ear
has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him.” – 1 Corinthians 2:9 (NIV)
Heaven will be the beauty of
the Garden of Eden restored. Heaven will be the perfect fellowship with one
another – no sham, no pretense, no self-consciousness. Heaven will be the
freedom to walk and talk w/our Creator – perfect fellowship with God. In heaven
we will be completely free from the sin nature and its consequences.
He will wipe every tear
from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for
the old order of things has passed away.” He who was
seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he
said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” – Revelation 21:4-5 (NIV)
Conclusion:
We all have a dark side – we’re
capable of the most horrible crimes. But greater is He that is in us than he
that is in the world. There is no sin so horrible that the blood of Christ
cannot wash it away. There is no sin so bitter that He can’t transform it. No
matter how grievous or minor you think your sin is, you need Christ to cleanse
you and transform you into His image. Paradise is waiting for you.